Yes, you can!


Sweat poured off of me and parts of my body hurt that I didn't even know I had.  I was ready to quit, I just knew I couldn't complete the last 10 minutes of the workout I had begun.  I was upset that I had let myself get to the point that what had once been a routine task now felt like I was dying and I'll be honest, I had tears rolling down my face.  Yet I pushed through-and I did finish.  Not only that first day, but many days past it.

Before you click the X at the top right of your screen, stick with me for a minute.  I promise that this is not an exercise post about how I lost X number of pounds etc.  Anyone who looks at my picture can tell that I am not at that "ideal" weight or BMI.  I am not a dietitian or physical fitness expert and I won't pretend to be.  That is why this post is not about that.  What this post IS about is perseverance-not giving up.

I am not blessed to be one of those people who just LOVES exercise.  I don't dream of entering and winning a 5k.  But I am someone who wants to be healthy and for me that means increasing my exercise.  It means doing something that isn't especially fun in order to receive a benefit that exceeds the work I put into it.  And it occurred to me that this is a principle that applies to all areas of life, and it is one that God encourages us to apply.

James 1:12 reminds us that the person who perseveres, who withstands the trials of this life, will receive a crown of life.  Our walk as a follower of Jesus isn't always an easy one.  Just ask the teenager whose parents disown them for doing so (and yes, I personally know people that this has happened to here in the United States!).  Ask the families of the Libyan migrants who were thrown overboard and left to drown last week if following Jesus is easy.  Talk to the child in public school who is made fun of for carrying his or her Bible to class with them to see if they think following Jesus is easy.  Or ask the man who has to decide whether to do what is right and possibly lose his job, or do what Jesus teaches is wrong.  You don't have to live in another country to experience trials as a part of following Jesus example.

I don't know what you are going through right now.  You may be struggling to maintain a healthy lifestyle, or you may be in a situation like one of those above.  Whatever you are going through, let me remind you that you CAN get through this. Here are a few pointers to help you out.

  •  Philippians 4:13 reminds us that we can do ALL things through Christ.  When you face difficulty, turn to Jesus first.  
  • Turn to your brothers and sisters in Christ.  (2 Timothy 2:3)  We weren't intended to walk this path without help, rather to work together and help each other to stand strong.  (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)
  • Recognize that this difficulty only lasts for a time.  And while it may feel like it is going to last forever, our time here in the grand scheme of things is fleeting when compared to eternity.  (Psalm 144:4)
  • Look for others going through a similar situation.  Perhaps you are going through this hardship so that you can provide comfort to another as God provides comfort to you.  (2 Corinthians 1:4)
So I'm going to go get back on my exercise bike, crank up some Crowder and persevere through this temporary physical difficulty.  I encourage you to stick with it and push through your difficulty - the reward will be great!


*Please note that is it not my intention to compare exercise with the sacrifices being made and the difficulties being faced by Christians all over the world.  Rather it is my hope that you can see the correlation between sticking with an exercise program that causes temporary discomfort for physical health and persevering through difficulties for an eternal reward.

And don't grumble...



Sin. We acknowledge we're all sinners. As Christians we are constantly striving (or should be) to beat our sin. But just what sins do we fight? And which ones do we accept or even ignore? 

We think we know which sins are greater than others. It seems pretty obvious: murder, adultery, idolatry... But do we really think about the sins we're committing and how they all hurt Jesus? Each little lie we tell; each immoral thought we have; each off color remark we make. These may seem small, and maybe they 'just' make Him 'shake His head', but they're still sin. They're still part of why Jesus died on the cross for you...

I was reading my Bible the other day, and was smacked in the mouth (pun intended!) with another sin. First, I feel I must point out that my mouth is one of my biggest problems. I talk too often, say too much, and more frequently than not, speak when I should be listening. My language could use polished, by both the words I use and the tone in which they come out. My mouth weighs heavily on my mind and in my heart. I constantly feel convicted over it. (Let me pause here and reaffirm that I have grown so much in this area, making leaps and bounds. Yet, I still have so far to go.) (Ephesians 4:29 was written for me- I'm convinced of it- Paul might as well have mentioned me by name.) Therefore, anytime I read something related to our mouths or tongue, I pay attention... So when I came across 1 Corinthians 10:10, I stopped, kicked it in reverse and reread. "And don't grumble..." Grumbling certainly comes from my mouth. And that in itself sent me in a downward spiral. Ultimately what comes out of our mouths is a vocalized version of what's already harboring in our hearts. (Matthew 18:15, Luke 6:45) So grumbling...(according to my iPad Dictionary means "to complain or protest about something in a bad-tempered but typically muted way") is my complaint that things aren't going the way I want (can we say "spoiled brat"?) My verbalizations of my grumpy heart shows my ingratitude of all that God has given me, and leaves me focusing only on what He hasn't (another pride issue- as if I have a better idea of what's best for me). And as if that weren't enough to stew on, did you notice the beginning of the verse is 'and' (or depending which version you read - 'neither' or 'nor' - basically 'in addition to')...so go back a few verses to see what this is 'in addition to'. (This chapter session is a lesson from the Exodus.) In addition to grumbling, we should not crave evil things, worship idols, overindulge in food and drink (pagan revelry), engage in sexual immorality, or test God. Am I the only one that initially thought grumbling seemed a little out of place here? The rest all seem like legit sins. But grumbling? How does that even fit in here? Hmm. Maybe that's the point of how significant grumbling is; how much it hurts God. Remember the Exodus? God cast judgment on the Egyptians for imprisoning the Israelites, His chosen people. He saved them from that life. He rescued them with multiple miracles (His presence as a cloud, parting the sea, providing food from Heaven, allowing their shoes and clothes to last 40 years, making them a nation with their own land...and how did they repay Him? They complained about everything. They were tired of traveling, tired of the rules, tired of the manna...they grumbled, leading them to other sins). Because the grumbling was, as stated earlier, a vocalized heart problem. They didn't trust God's plan. They didn't want to endure the hardship to enjoy the reward. And they certainly didn't have faith that He would do what He said He would. 

Have you been there? Have you caught yourself complaining to Him about your have nots more than praising Him for your haves? Are you grateful for what you have, or grumbling for what you want? Because Jesus is our chance at our own Exodus; He's the only way out of this enslavement- (we're His chosen people) for us to witnesses His miracles. And we've all witnessed miracles (maybe not sea parting, but still...). So why should 'we' 'get away with it'? Where is our gratitude for all of our blessings? (1 Thessalonians 5:18) Where is our trust that He has a plan? (Jeremiah 29:11) Where is our faith that He will care for us, too? (Philippians 4:19)

Love to Serve, Serve to Love


This was a missionary message to me. Let me explain.

I have always been insecure and felt inadequate around most people. Those feelings didn't disappear when I began doing work for the Lord. While I am much more confident than I used to be, I still question and second guess myself frequently. I feel like I have so much to learn yet where Jesus is concerned. I don't have all of the answers. I don't even know all of the questions to ask. I haven't even read the Bible in its entirety- so how am I qualified to teach anyone about God when I don't know all of the facts myself?

I struggled with this when God put it on my heart to write my church newsletter, and again a few years later about starting this blog. I just don't feel qualified to 'teach' anyone. I still have so many questions, so many uncertainties, so many doubts. One of my biggest fears is that I’ll push someone further from Christ because of my lack of knowledge. I don't want to lose someone when I can't answer their questions. And I fear they'll lose interest if I tell them I need to look it up and get back to them. (You have no idea how many hours I spend looking things up for my writings before I publish them. I don't have that luxury of time in a face to face conversation.)

Therefore, this verse speaks to me that it's okay not to know it all. (And no one really knows it all but God anyway). (Job 21:22, Isaiah 40:13-14, Romans 11:33-34, 1 Corinthians 2:16, 1 John 3:20) But holding myself back from telling others of Him isn't being like Him; which is what we are called to be. What it all boils down to (and by 'all'- I mean quite literally 'all': this life, this world, the people surrounding us and our Walk with Christ) is Love. You see, love is more important than knowledge. (Check your Bible- the Word doesn't tell us to learn all we can; It tells us to love all we can). True wisdom is measured by a person’s character, not by their knowledge. (James 3:13, 17) and what greater character trait is there to have than being a person filled with love? (1 John 4:7-8) The entire Bible is about, exemplifies and commands love. (Matthew 22:37, 39; John 3:16; 1 John 4:9; - the verses are virtually endless) From the beginning, God is Love. (1 John 3:11) His greatest commandment of us is to love. (Matthew 22:37-40) It is through our Love for God, that we are to love others, and we will serve them. Serving others can be done through a multitude of outlets. Obviously it can be an act of service (volunteering at a shelter or food bank). It can be through teaching (Bible studies and Sunday school classes (and blogs)). It can be through counseling (letting someone vent and cry). It can be done with many, and with few. And even, I think, can be done alone. Praying for someone, in your time alone with God is serving. (I personally have no doubt that because others prayed for me- when I wasn't present- has saved and grown me in many ways). (After all, we don't serve for recognition, so doing it without witnesses is a large sacrifice for our pride). (Matthew 6:1-4)

Is it important to know all we can about the Lord? Absolutely. But is it necessary to have all knowledge to serve Him and love others? Absolutely not. (Proverbs 3:1-4). (Acts 20:35) We are on this earth for a reason, and each person has their own specific calling from God. (Jeremiah 29:11, 2 Thessalonians 1:11, 1 Peter 4:10-11) Just because you aren't involved in a big overseas mission to help spread His Word, doesn't mean your mission isn't just as important. If God has placed something on your heart, there's a reason for it; and He sees the need and urgency when we don't. You may not feel like you're the most qualified person to do the job. You may not feel like you're even in the top 90%. But God does. Remember, He doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called. (James 2:5)

His whole Law can be fulfilled by ‘Love’. (Galatians 5:13-14) Our whole reason for existing is to Love, God and others. And what better way to love God, than to love His children? And to show our love for both, is to serve them. (James 2:14-17)

We are Christians, Christ-like. And what better way to be like Christ, than to love those He loves (everyone) and to serve them? If Jesus came to this world to serve, we should follow His lead. (Matthew 10:44-45, Mark 10:45, Philippians 2:1-8) (Ephesians 2:10, Philippians 2:2)

We needn’t worry about how much we know, we should worry about how much love we show. (1 Timothy 3:13) (Hebrews 10:24)

 

So much better than the bunny


We were walking through the mall, my six year old and I, while my teen daughter happily traipsed around the mall with her gal pals.  In the center court was the giant Easter display, complete with an Easter bunny and a place for children to line up for pictures.

"What's that, mommy?"

"A place for children to get their picture taken with the Easter bunny," I replied as we kept on walking towards the area of the mall that had been set up for children to play and parents to take a break.

"Don't they know the Easter bunny isn't real?  That Easter is about Jesus?" she questioned.  Now don't get me wrong, I don't judge anyone for enjoying the Easter bunny tradition.  My older children delighted in discovering their Easter baskets that had been skillfully hidden by the bunny when they were younger.  But one Easter my husband and I looked around us as the children devoured their chocolate bunnies and realized that they had totally missed the point of Easter.  That we had failed to share the importance of what were were celebrating.  And our Easter celebration became less about the bunny and more about Jesus.

In a world full of hurting people, it seems especially important to share the truth of Easter.  While a bunny may bring temporary relief (it is chocolate after all!) from the things that get us down, eventually the chocolate is gone and reality sets in again.  But if we instead focus on Jesus we see that Easter is about so much more than the bunny.  It's about one man, who was the Son of God, choosing you and I over His own comfort, even His own life.  It's about one man enduring pain, shame and rejection so that one day we won't have to.  I don't know about you, but for me that is a much better message to share with my children than the bunny.

Today is Good Friday.  A day that over 2,000 years ago must have felt anything but good to those who were there.  I can only imagine how it felt to watch the man that had become one of my closest friends, the man I believed to be God's own Son, hang on a cross and later be buried in a tomb - dead.  But it is that act that brings us so much hope today.  Hope that there is more to this life that what we are presently experiencing.  Hope that God can overcome everything!  Because if death can't hold him (and we know it can't) nothing else can either!

This Easter especially that thought brings me comfort.  It's a message I want to share with you.  No matter what you are going through, no matter how difficult or dark things may appear, this isn't the end of the story.  That is what Easter is really about.  If you know Jesus, if you have accepted the gift He freely gave on the cross, then you know how the story ends - in victory.  So don't focus on the here and now, it is fleeting.  Instead, focus on the truth that you are loved so much that He couldn't let anything separate you from Him, not even death.  No bunny can even compare to that!